Feedback as a Mirror for the Self
Feedback as a Mirror for the Self “Human beings are poor examiners, subject to superstition, bias, prejudice, and a PROFOUND tendency to see what they want to see rather than what is really there.” BY ELENI ARONI 1. Feedback as a Mirror for the SelfFeedback mechanisms—whether from other people, social environments, or self-reflection—act like mirrors […]
The Cost of Being Biased
The Cost of Being Biased: WhenOur Mind Deceives Us First!M. Scott Peck: “Human beings are poor examiners, subject to superstition, bias, prejudice, and a PROFOUND tendency to see what they want to see rather than what is really there.” BY ELENI ARONI Bias is often spoken about as a gap in reasoning — a flaw […]
Authenticity vs Kindness:
Authenticity vs Kindness:Can a Small Lie Still Hurt? The most powerful presence combines being real and being kind—aligning actions with values. BY ELENI ARONI We often excuse deception in the name of kindness — a compliment to spare someone’s feelings, a softened truth to avoid conflict, a “white lie” to smooth over social expectations. These […]
Truth or Comfort?
Truth or Comfort? Being Human is an endless Growing Up! Getting Up! And slowly – slowly Your Life begins embodying Meaning and Purpose, Nothing else matters!!! BY ELENI ARONI Choosing truth over comfort it seams difficult — but it often leads to adeeper, more authentic life. 1. Truth brings growthTruth forces us to face ourselves: […]
Are you Responsible or Controlling?
Are you Responsible or Controlling? “The ego seeks to control, but the soul knows only how to flow” BY ELENI ARONI Control vs. Responsibility: Understanding the Difference In navigating life, relationships, and work, understanding the distinction between control and responsibility is crucial. Many people conflate the two, leading to stress, frustration, and unnecessary burdens. While […]
Limited Mindset vs. Growth Mindset
Limited Mindset vs. Growth Mindset Understanding the Difference and How to Shift Perspectives BY ELENI ARONI In today’s fast-paced world, mindset plays a crucial role in determining personal and professional success.Understanding these contrasting mindsets can help unlock potential and foster resilience in the face of obstacles. What is a Limited Mindset?Individuals with a limited mindset, […]
Mastering our Senses
Mastering our Senses “Remember, peace is not found by silencing the world, but by quieting the mind. When you master your senses, you will find that the world itself becomes a source of peace.” BY ELENI ARONI When we loose our clarity in solving problems, in crisis management, in decision making, communicating with others, one […]
Do You Get or Do You Spread Poison?
Do You Get or Do You Spread Poison? BY ELENI ARONI Lately i’ve observed that I still got some poison (less than in the past) from toxic or negative behaviours of other people, while I still produce a small amount of poison with my thoughts , words and actions. So I started a “campaign”( praying […]
The Garden of Beliefs
The Garden of BeliefsHow our Beliefs shape our Lives BY ELENI ARONI In a distant land, there was a village where each person had a unique garden. These gardens were not filled with ordinary plants but with flowers, trees, and vines that represented the beliefs of the person who tended them. One day, a young […]
OBSTACLES
OBSTACLES BY ELENI ARONI Desire can either elevate a person toward dignity, self respect, abundance and generosity or drive the person toward degradation.The more one gets, the more one wants.Like junkies, people are willing to degrade themselves, abandoning themselves to the objects of their desires.It is the appetitive craving running toward self degradation that is […]