How to Combine Artificial Intelligence with Essential Intelligence (and Actually Win)
BY ELENI ARONI
A few years ago I started exploring A.I. to learn how to use it for research and knowledge. I even took a few courses for amateurs.
What I’ve noticed was that my own brain intelligence started to function in a more effective way than the past.
I am presenting my understanding through my personal experience for inspiration:
We’re not in the “AI is coming” phase anymore.
We’re in the “AI is already here” phase.
The real question is no longer: Should I use AI?
It’s: Am I using it intelligently or just relying on it?
Because here’s the truth:
Using Artificial Intelligence without essential intelligence doesn’t make you powerful. It makes you dependent.
The New Advantage in today’s world:
AI gives you speed
AI gives you options
AI gives you scale
But it does NOT give you:
* clarity
* judgment
* direction
That’s your job.
And that comes from what we call essential intelligence.
The Simple Model (Remember This):
AI = Expansion. You = Direction
Or even simpler:
AI shows possibilities. You choose what matters.
The 5-Step Integration Loop
If you only remember one thing from this newsletter, make it this:
1.Think First (Don’t skip this)
Before you touch AI, ask yourself:
* What do I actually want?
* Why does it matter?
This activates your Prefrontal Cortex (aka your decision-making system)
2. Use AI to Expand
Now bring in AI to:
* generate ideas
* explore options
* give perspectives
Treat it like a “thinking partnernot a final authority
3. Filter Like a Pro
Ask:
* Does this make sense for my situation?
* What’s missing?
* What feels off?
This is where most people fail.
They accept instead of evaluate.
4. Execute (This is the real game)
No execution = no value.
Use your power skills:
* focus
* discipline
* communication
AI can’t do this part for you.
5. Reflect & Improve
After you act:
* What worked?
* What didn’t?
This builds Neuroplasticity (aka how your brain gets smarter over time)
The Biggest Mistakes Right Now
Most people are:
❌ Asking vague questions
❌ Accepting the first answer
❌ Consuming without acting
❌ Letting AI think for them
Result: overwhelmed, not improved
What High-Level Thinkers Do Differently
They:
✅ Think before they ask
✅ Challenge AI outputs
✅ Apply immediately
✅ Stay in control of decisions
The Neuroscience Edge
When you integrate properly:
* Your Prefrontal Cortex gets stronger → better decisions
* You regulate the Amygdala → less impulsive reactions
* You reinforce Neuroplasticity → faster learning
Translation:
You don’t just use AI—you become better at thinking
Final Thought:
AI is not your advantage. How you think while using AI is
your advantage.
One Rule to Keep. Don’t outsource your thinking.
Upgrade it—with AI. If you apply this consistently, you won’t just keep up with the AI era…
You’ll lead in it.